
Let's Talk About Things That Matter
BEFORE They Matter!

What if talking about death could help us live more intentionally?
A Death Café is a relaxed, facilitated conversation where people come together to discuss death, dying, grief, legacy, and the things that matter most. There are no presentations, experts, or right answers—just curious people exploring one of life's few certainties in an atmosphere of openness, respect, and compassion. And yes, there is usually cake and coffee.

Grief is a universal experience, yet many people carry it in silence. The Grief Café offers a welcoming space to learn, reflect, and connect with others through conversation and shared experience.

A YouTube channel providing compassionate, educational conversations about grief, loss, death, and life transitions—grounded in education, chaplaincy, and trauma-informed care. This channel offers education and support and is not a replacement for therapy.

On-demand learning offers flexible, self-paced education that learners can return to as needed, in their own time.
Most people know these conversations are important. Few know where to begin. Life Transitions Education Sessions 2–5 are designed to make the process approachable, practical, and empowering.
In just one hour, you'll gain valuable insights, learn what questions to ask, and discover simple actions that can help you and your loved ones navigate life's transitions with greater confidence and peace of mind.
When facing a serious illness, individuals and families are often asked to make important healthcare decisions with little understanding of the options available. This session provides a practical introduction to palliative care and hospice care—two approaches that focus on comfort, quality of life, and support for patients and families.
During this one-hour session, participants will learn what these services are, how they differ, when they may be helpful, and how they can support individuals living with serious illness. Whether planning ahead or supporting a loved one, this session offers valuable information for making informed healthcare decisions.
Most people have preferences about their healthcare, yet many never formally communicate or document those wishes. This session introduces the basics of advance directives and the important role of a healthcare agent—the person authorized to speak on your behalf if you are unable to do so.
Participants will learn what advance directives are, why they matter, how they can help guide healthcare decisions, and what authority they do—and do not—provide. Whether you are planning for yourself or helping a loved one prepare for the future, this session offers practical information for ensuring that your voice is heard when it matters most.
This session is designed to be completed in one hour.
Having someone to speak on your behalf is important, but it is equally important to communicate your wishes clearly. This session explores Advance Directives for Health Care and Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment (POLST) forms, including their purpose, key differences, and when each may be appropriate.
Participants will gain a practical understanding of how these documents can help guide healthcare decisions and ensure that personal preferences are known and respected. Each participant will receive a complimentary copy of their state's Advance Directive and POLST forms for future review and consideration.
This session is designed to be completed in one hour.
Without a clear and well-designed estate plan, the assets you worked hard to build and the belongings that matter most to you may not be protected or passed on as you intended. When plans are not in place, assets can be exposed to risks such as mismanagement, addiction, bankruptcy, divorce, or lack of readiness on the part of those who receive them.
This session offers peace of mind by explaining how a thoughtful estate plan allows you to clearly state who receives your assets and how they are managed. Join us for this one-hour session to learn how to protect what you’ve built and secure your legacy.
This presentation will be led by a state-licensed estate planning attorney.
What decisions will your loved ones have to make if you don't?
Most people spend considerable time planning important life events, yet few take the time to document their wishes for what they would like to happen after their death. As a result, family members are often left to make difficult decisions during a time of grief, uncertainty, and emotional stress.
This practical and engaging session introduces participants to Final Wishes, a comprehensive planning document designed to help record personal preferences and important information. Topics include obituary information, funeral or memorial service preferences, burial or cremation decisions, special readings or music, and post-service gatherings.
Each participant will receive a complimentary copy of Final Wishes to review, complete, and keep for personal use. By taking time to document your preferences, you can provide a meaningful gift to your loved ones—clarity, guidance, and peace of mind when they need it most.
This session is designed to be completed in one hour.
Grief is a natural response to loss and is often associated with the death of a loved one or a pet. However, there are many other forms of grief—such as anticipatory, compounded, and displaced grief—that are less recognized but equally impactful. In this two-hour session, participants will learn how grief shows up in different ways, how it affects individuals over time, and the important role it plays in healing. Join us for a thoughtful exploration of the many dimensions of grief. This session is approximately two hours.
Trauma is not defined only by what happens to us, but by how our bodies and minds respond when an experience overwhelms our ability to cope. These responses can have lasting effects on emotional and mental well-being. This presentation explains the difference between trauma and grief, outlines the three primary types of trauma, and explores why healing is essential. Participants will also learn how unresolved trauma can affect not only individuals, but future generations.
Join us for this in-depth two-hour session to better understand trauma and its far-reaching impact.
I'M THRILLED YOU INQUIRED!
Learn about Death Café directly from Zandra, a participant with firsthand experience, or read about it below.
The objective of a Death Café is to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives.
A Death Café is a participatory, group-led conversation about death, devoid of any specific agenda, objectives, or themes. It serves as a discussion forum rather than a grief support or counseling session.
If you're intrigued by the idea of having me facilitate a Death Café for your group, fantastic! I assure you, it will be a fascinating experience—far from morbid. Feel free to reach out to me for further details.
For information on the Death Café movement or how to hold a Death Café in your own community, go to DeathCafe.com.

Grief is a universal human experience, yet many people find themselves carrying their grief in silence. The Grief Café offers a welcoming space to learn, reflect, and connect with others who understand that loss changes us.
The gathering begins with an interactive presentation, Eleven Things to Know About Grief, followed by an opportunity for participants to "Name Your Grief." Each person will be invited to briefly share their name, the person or situation they are grieving, and something they would like others to know about that loss. Following each sharing, the group will offer a simple toast in recognition of the person, relationship, or life circumstance being honored.
Whether your loss is recent or many years old, you are welcome to participate at your own comfort level. The purpose is not to fix grief, but to create a space where grief can be acknowledged, witnessed, and spoken aloud in the company of others.
And because meaningful conversations are often shared around a table, coffee, cake, and light refreshments will be provided.
Dr. Oliver presented on the unique forms of grief experienced by caregivers in the educational series Caregiving While Black.

My sister died on 01.05.2021 at age 52. These are the types of grief that I experienced thus far.

You may have an idea about how you want to live out your final days, but do you know the process for making your wishes known? In Advanced Directives, Part I, the concepts of advanced directives and naming a health care agent are introduced. The pros and cons of advanced directives will be discussed as well as what powers advanced directives can and cannot offer the individual.

Many people almost immediately associate the word "grief" with the death of a person or pet. Truth is, there are many other types of grief.
This seminar introduces the learner to the difference between grief and to grieve as well as the different types of grief that we all experience.
Many people know these documents are important but feel overwhelmed by where to begin. You don't have to navigate the process alone.
Together, we will clarify your wishes, discuss the decisions that matter most to you, and complete the documents needed to ensure your preferences are known and respected. Whether you are preparing an advance directive, documenting your final wishes, or creating a funeral plan, I will guide you through the process with clarity, compassion, and practical support.
Services may include:
The goal is simple: to provide clarity for you and peace of mind for those you love.
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Whether you serve a congregation, retirement community, workplace, civic organization, or family network, meaningful conversations about life's transitions can make a lasting difference.
Death and dying touch every family, yet many people are unfamiliar with the options, resources, and decisions that may one day be required. By learning about these topics before they become urgent, individuals can reduce uncertainty, make informed choices, and approach the future with greater confidence and peace of mind.
Explore the Life Transitions Education Offerings and discover practical tools, thoughtful guidance, and meaningful conversations designed to help people prepare for what matters most.
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Exceptional end-of-life care requires more than clinical expertise. It requires effective communication, emotional awareness, interdisciplinary collaboration, and a shared commitment to supporting patients and families through some of life's most difficult moments.
Palliative and hospice professionals routinely navigate complex family dynamics, difficult conversations, moral distress, grief, and loss while balancing significant clinical and administrative responsibilities. Without intentional support, these demands can contribute to compassion fatigue, burnout, and team dysfunction.
I partner with palliative and hospice organizations to strengthen interdisciplinary team effectiveness through education, facilitated discussion, reflective practice, and professional development. Together, we can foster greater collaboration, enhance communication, support staff well-being, and improve the care experience for patients and families.
Investing in your team is an investment in compassionate, consistent, and high-quality end-of-life care.
Let's connect to explore how I can support your organization.
DrLisaOliver.com
Atlanta, Georgia, United States
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